Friday, May 31, 2013

Wednesday, May 29, 2013


Mariah Carey Ft. Miguel – Beautiful Lyrics
Ah ah you’re beautiful
Ah ah you’re beautiful
Hop on, the back of my bike
Let the good the wind blow through your hair
With a a– like that, and a smile so bright
Oh you’re killing me, you know it aint fair
Ride on, through the middle of the night
Let moonlight kiss your skin
When you dance like that, your jeans so tight
Oh you’re killing me, baby do it again
You’re beautiful, and your mind is f-cking beautiful
And I cant pretend that that doesnt mean a thing to me, to me, yeah
You’re beautiful, good lord, you’re f-cking beautiful
And I cant pretend that that doesnt mean a thing to me, to me, yeah
I like when you run red lights, dont stop till you thrill me, oh how you thrill me
Always in control, how you do it I don’t know
But I dont care, take me anywhere,
Cause it’s beautiful, ooh you make me feel undressable
And I cant pretend that that doesnt mean a thing to me, to me, ohh yeah
You’re beautiful, and your mind is f-cking beautiful
And I cant pretend that that doesnt mean a thing to me, to me, yeah
You’re beautiful, good lord, you’re f-cking beautiful
And I cant pretend that that doesnt mean a thing to me, to me, yeah
Ah ah you’re beautiful
Ah ah you’re beautiful
You don’t know what you’re doing darling
Hop on back my bike darling
Don’t you worry darling
Mariah Carey Ft. Miguel – Beautiful Lyrics

Tuesday, May 28, 2013

I Won't Let Go...Rascal Flatts

It's like a storm
That cuts a path
It's breaks your will
It feels like that

You think your lost
But your not lost on your own
Your not alone
I will stand by you
I will help you through
When you've done all you can do
If you can't cope
I will dry your eyes
I will fight your fight
I will hold you tight
And I wont let go

It hurts my heart
To see you cry
I know it's dark
This part of life
Oh it finds us all
And we're too small
To stop the rain
Oh but when it rains

I will stand by you
I will help you through
When you've done all you can do

And you can't cope
I will dry your eyes
I will fight your fight
I will hold you tight

And I won't let you fall
Don't be afraid to fall
I'm right here to catch you
I wont let you down
It wont get you down
Your gonna make it
Yea I know you can make it

Cause I will stand by you
I will help you through
When you've done all you can do
And you can't cope
And I will dry your eyes
I will fight your fight
I will hold you tight
And I won't let go
Oh I'm gonna hold you
And I won't let go
Wont let you go
No I won't
Lyrics from

Tuesday, May 14, 2013

Love and let yourself be loved...

When someone loves you, you should take it & run!  I have learned that there are so many people that are some that do not genuinely care for, love and respect their spouses/partners.  Everyone deserves to be loved....

Monday, May 13, 2013

Cancer & Capricorn

Cancer and Capricorn  

When Cancer and Capricorn make a love match, it’s a celestial pairing of great tenacity and determination. Capricorn, the Sea Goat, is focused on logic, on being down-to-earth and real; Cancer brings a charge of emotional intensity to the relationship. Both hold one another to high standards tempered by an abiding mutual respect. In a Capricorn mate, Cancer finds dedication, and in return Capricorn comes to love Cancer’s persistence. These two Signs from opposite sides of the Zodiac can come together to create a very successful and secure connection.
This relationship builds and grows from a strong foundation of material and emotional security. Both Signs can be depended on to make frugal, conservative decisions. It doesn’t have to be all solemnity, though, as Cancer can help their hard-working Capricorn lover to relax a little at the end of the day, to take time to enjoy the rewards of all that labor. Cancer will also be the one to polish and preserve the fruits of their shared accomplishments; Cancer is the keeper of nostalgia and cherished memories and possessions. Capricorn moves Cancer toward achievement and keeps in check their Crab-like tendencies, enlightening Cancer to the more important matters of the world outside their own easily bruised heart. This relationship succeeds if there is an ironclad commitment and a stable, traditional home environment.
The Moon (Emotion) rules Cancer, and Saturn (Karma) rules Capricorn. The Moon is a warm, feminine energy, and Saturn a cold, masculine energy. The Moon is emotional and nurturing; it is about maternal care giving and intuition, both of which become vital to Cancer. Saturn practices integrity and discipline to achieve goals. A Cancer love mate can show their serious Capricorn companion how to enjoy life and to appreciate beauty and comfort. Mothering Cancer truly enjoys smoothing over Capricorn’s hard edges. Conversely, the Sea Goat can smooth Cancer’s ruffled emotional feathers by providing the sort of solid foundation that Cancer desperately craves. Capricorn teaches Cancer to be more disciplined and to go out into the world and strive toward goals.
Cancer is a Water Sign, and Capricorn is an Earth Sign. Earth Signs focus on possessions, Water Signs on emotion and intuition, but also on beauty and nostalgia. The Cancer-Capricorn love mates like to surround themselves with beautiful things — a stately home, gorgeous artwork, expensive cars. Their desire to be economically stable and their love of finery ensures that this couple will work hard toward this and other shared goals. This mutual love for fine things keeps them out of arguments about one partner trying to live ostentatiously or beyond their means.
Cancer and Capricorn are Cardinal Signs. Both are initiatory, active and ardent. Though this can be a catalyst for some dynamite conflicts, it can provide Capricorn with an emotional pillar, as Cancer is entirely dedicated to the relationship. Their differing emotional dispositions complement each other well — Capricorn excels in getting the nitty-gritty business done, and Cancer always steps in when emotional counseling is needed. These Signs will get along well if Capricorn and Cancer allow one another to use their respective individual strengths.
What’s the best thing about the Cancer-Capricorn relationship? Their utter dedication to one another and their mutual commitments toward shared goals. Both are lovers of quality and of beautiful, luxurious things, and neither shirks at the idea of a little hard work if that’s what it takes (in fact, Capricorn would rather be working than almost anything!). Their shared passions, sense of responsibility and morality make theirs a highly compatible relationship.

When you find it, hold on tight!

Love...So here's the story. 
Back in April I get an email on Match from this handsome man named Dave.  We talked back and forth...I sent him my cell phone number & said give me a call or text if you want to keep talking.  Easier than having to log on here & keep messaging back and forth.  Then crickets...I sent him another message a few days saying something about not hearing from him & decide it's a done deal.  I woke up last Thursday and had an email showing that he'd "winked" at me!  So, I immediately got back on & paid another sign up cost JUST to get back in touch with this guy!  We've been talking and together everyday since.  When you find the one that wants to be on that journey with you, you want forever to start now and you start down that road!  Don't waste another minute!  LOL...You are certainly worth that $35 David! 

Tuesday, May 7, 2013

This is how a marriage falls apart

I saw this & as soon as I saw the first one...I thought THAT right there, that is exactly where it began!  The respect went away, not sure where along the lines that happened, but it did & that's when what love was there, was lost. 
Nurture your marriage, keep that bond and always make time for one another! 

Sunday, May 5, 2013

Notes from stay at home Dad's

So funny!  Saw these on FB a couple days ago...a little humor before I close my eyes and get some rest before I start my new job tomorrow! 

You will make it through because God never gives us more than we can handle!

We all have those days where you feel like you're not going to make it through & you really wonder HOW MUCH MORE CAN I TAKE...But I promise you, after what I've been through this past year & I've come out on top - YOU WILL TOO!  Just keep holding on and know that you're not alone!
I see the pain in your eyes and hear the hurt in your voice, I've seen the tears and I'm here.  I'm here to lean on, let me help you carry the weight.  I tell you that everything happens for a reason and I truly believe that in my heart.  In every aspect of life!  The people we've met and left behind or that left us behind, the ones that have died...they've all taught us something whether it's been good, bad, hurtful - whatever it is.  The experiences, the lessons in life - they've all made us who we are today!  I believe that God brought me into your life b/c I have the caring, loving and nurturing heart that you so need!  Long term or just the here and now, only time will tell.
I think of our talks and hearing where you have been and where you are at now and I just want to make sure you know it's all going to be OK.  You will see what I mean once you're on the other side and the dust has settled. 

Don't ever let someone who's not going to take care of your heart like it was their own in again!  No one deserves to have their needs neglected, to have their love and affection brushed off.  Always remember YOU deserve so much more than that!   

Saturday, May 4, 2013

HA...eye opener this morning for relationships!

THIS...this is what so many have told me I need to be doing.  I think I get it now! 

In my email this morning I stopped to read this email from Rori Raye - Have the Relationship You Want.  I get them daily I think but I've never really stopped to read through an entire one. 

Step Back - away from the phone, the email, the initiating affection, attention, sex and dates - and turn your focus on YOURSELF.

And, I need to be doing this: Instead of working so hard at the relationship, I worked hard on myself and on the rest of my life. I told myself that I’d be all right no matter what, and that if I stuck to my own plan, I’d have the relationship I wanted, even if it wasn’t with him.

We (women) are so much more vocal about our feelings and emotions.  And then when they (men) don't respond in the same way, it freaks us out.  It 's not gonna happen that way...stop spilling your heart & expecting the same in return.  Men just aren't wired that way.

I read this & it made so much sense!! 

One of the ways I was chasing men was in Overfunctioning, Overgiving, Over Nurturing, and generally making the man the center of my life.
Even though I was very, very busy in my professional life (I was an actress always doing plays, going on auditions and filming when I got a job), whatever man I was with STILL FELT like the absolute center of my world.
HE and my romantic life were just head and shoulders the most important thing. And that's just about the worst mistake any one of us can make.
HERE'S A LETTER from "Lillian," exactly how she wrote it and sent it to me, and she really shows us how easy it is to fall into that mistake:
Q. Hi Rori,
I have a boyfriend of 4 months. I love him verrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrry much and he loves me. But my problem is that I can't control my feelings (I tell him "I love you" all the time, sending him amazing mails and messages - but he DOESN'T). He told me several times I love you but not as much as I do. For example, I sent him a lovely email yesterday. I checked my mail but I didn't find anything back at all!?!! I went to my computer and the passion filled me - I wanted to receive a mail from him but THERES NOTHING !!! SO PLEASE TELL ME WHAT TO DO? "Lillian"
A. Because Lillian's situation is so common to so many of us, and because she expresses the pain and frustration of it so well, I asked to answer it here.
It's really helpful to see how Lillian's situation is a perfect example of an Imaginary Relationship.
An Imaginary Relationship, as opposed to a Real Relationship, is where YOU feel like you're already to the end point of the relationship - where it's all signed, sealed and delivered - even before you have any real indication from him about where HE'S at. Where you can't help CHASING him, because you need him to hurry up and get to where you already are on the Relationship Timeline. (The Relationship Timeline is what I call the whole experience with a man from the moment you meet him until you walk off into the sunset with him, fully committed.)

Friday, May 3, 2013

Just sad today...

I miss being in a relationship where we're together living under the same roof. 

Thinking today about how nice it is to be dating one person & knowing that he is like me in wanting to be in a relationship, but I am so longing for the closeness and time of being under the same roof. 

I miss that...that knowing you had someone at home or coming home to you. 

Cooking dinner & just the day to day stuff of a relationship. 
I am longing for that companionship again. 

They physical connection, skin on skin, touching, kissing...just snuggling and talking. 

I think I've had WAY too much time on my hands not working now for a month!  LOL...I am SO sick off myself & all the thinking.  TOO MUCH! 

Thursday, May 2, 2013

How he treats his Mother...


What do you like about me?

So the question...what is it that you like about me?
1. Your heart!  You have such a kind heart!  I mean a really good, big heart! 
2. Your love for your kids!  There is nothing sexier than a hands on, in love with his kids, would move heaven and earth for his kids Dad!! 
3. You're so easy to talk too.  About everything...
4. I'm so impressed with the way you love and respect your Mother.
5. You are beautiful!  That smile, those're beautiful baby!  You make my stomach tumble and my heart do flip flops!

Does that answer your question?  As I've said, everything happens for a reason.  People come into our lives for a reason and they leave for a reason.  We are who we are today b/c of our past.  No regrets, keep your eyes looking forward and look for the good in each day!  Dare to be will be loved for who you are by the right person!  You don't have to change to please the right one!